As a parent of a high school senior, I know how daunting the college application process can be. With so many deadlines and requirements, it's easy to feel overwhelmed, especially when time is ticking away. But here’s the deal—you don’t have to go through this alone, and more importantly, your child doesn't have to suffer through last-minute chaos. I’m here to help you understand the importance of deadlines, what your student needs to meet them, and how you can be involved every step of the way.
Deadlines aren’t just dates; they are opportunities. Each one represents a chance for your child to shine before admissions officers. Missing them? That’s a missed opportunity, and trust me, you don’t want that. Many colleges offer different types of deadlines, like Early Action, Early Decision, Regular Decision, and Rolling Admissions. Understanding these distinctions is crucial for determining what’s best for your child.
I cannot emphasize enough how critical it is to know the deadlines for each college. I’ve seen far too many students miss out on early application opportunities or, worse, miss the deadline altogether. Sit down with your child and create a timeline or spreadsheet. Whether you use a Google Calendar or a more traditional method, ensure you and your child have these deadlines marked and well-understood.
But it's not just the college deadlines you need to keep track of—your school counselor plays a huge role, too. They will submit transcripts, recommendation letters, and school reports. Some schools even ask for a self-reported academic record (SRAR), meaning your student needs to submit their grades themselves. Schools often have their internal deadlines, so be sure you know when they need materials to submit everything on time.
Parents, your child’s school counselor is one of the most critical people in this process. I cannot stress enough the importance of early communication with them. Reach out, know their timeline for submitting documents, and ensure your child’s recommendations are submitted on time.
Here’s a tip: ask your child’s school if they have an internal deadline for finalizing college lists. Many schools want the list two weeks before application deadlines so they have time to submit transcripts and recommendations. Missing these deadlines can result in your child’s application being incomplete, an instant red flag for admissions offices.
The standardized test landscape has changed dramatically in recent years. Many schools have gone test-optional, meaning they no longer require SAT or ACT scores for admission. But test-optional doesn’t mean test-irrelevant. If your child’s test scores are within or above the school’s middle 50th percentile, it may be worth submitting them.
Start by checking whether the colleges your child is applying to require test scores. Then, look at their score ranges. If your child’s scores fall within the school’s median range, it could strengthen their application. But if not, that’s okay too—colleges are increasingly emphasizing other parts of the application, like the essay and extracurricular involvement.
You knew I’d get to this! As the founder of Strategic Admissions Advice, I’m deeply invested in ensuring your child submits the best college essay possible. It’s the one place in the application where the admissions team gets a true sense of who your child is—beyond grades, beyond test scores. Essays matter.
Your child will likely encounter two types of essays: the personal statement and supplemental essays. Personal statements come from the heart—an opportunity for your child to reflect on who they are and what they’ve experienced. Supplemental essays, on the other hand, tend to be more focused, often asking students why they want to attend a particular school or how they will contribute to the campus community. These essays require careful thought and planning.
Parents, your role here is to proofread, not polish. Encourage your child to brainstorm, write, and revise their work. Be supportive without overstepping—after all, admissions officers want to hear your child’s voice, not yours.
As deadlines approach, it’s easy to get overwhelmed but don’t let that paralyze you or your child. This process, while stressful, is also one of the most exciting times of their life. Encourage your child to stay on top of their work and help them manage their stress. Deadlines are non-negotiable in college admissions, and missing them could have dire consequences.
The truth is, this journey is a partnership between you, your child, and their school. Being proactive, staying organized, and keeping lines of communication open are the best ways to ensure your child is set up for success.
Need help keeping track of these deadlines and requirements? Schedule a free Discovery Call with me at Strategic Admissions Advice. Together, we can make sure your child’s application is complete, compelling, and on time. Visit www.callwithsaa.com today to book your call!
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